A decent night sleep is the absolute parenting pinnacle isn't it?! But, we all know how darn hard that is to achieve.
We're not talking about sleep training your baby or having unrealistic expectations of your newborn sleeping through the night, but in this article we want to share with you four quite unexpected and unknown things that might be inhibiting your baby or toddler sleeping better overnight!
There is a bit of a myth that giving your baby solids will definitely help them sleep better at night. Yep, it can, in the long run, but certainly not initially. And "solids" is a very vague term - we need to be looking at what foods and at what times your baby is having that food if we're discussing how solids helps night sleep.
Rushing in and giving your baby something "filling" like baby rice or a lamb chop at dinner time is probably going to cause more trouble than do good overnight. When babies first start solids, their digestive system is completely unused to digesting anything other than milk. This means it's going to take a while for your wee one's body to get the hang of it. At night, while we're lying down, our digestive system works slower, therefore your baby will struggle more to digest solid food overnight than they will in the day. This in itself is a big cause of sudden night waking!
We suggest starting solids with your little one at lunchtime. This means they have the whole rest of the day of being mobile and upright to aid digestion before lying down all night. And start small too! Go easy on quantity and let your baby's body get used to the solids intake bit by bit.
Furthermore, protein is a lot harder to digest than fruit and vegetables. In fact, babies under 10 months will really struggle to digest protein overnight, so we always recommend protein is given at the lunchtime meal until 10 months old. For a baby under 10 months, give starchy veges or carbs at dinnertime instead.
So if your baby has recently started solids and their night sleep seems worse, take a look at the amount, types and timings of those solids!
Contrary to what baby stores suggest, nightlights are really unnecessary for younger babies and toddlers. What is the purpose of a nightlight? To ease a fear of the dark... but, until toddlers develop imagination, they actually don't understand the concept of conscious fear and babies definitely do not fear the dark; their imagination simply isn't developed enough.
What nightlights do do though, is give your baby something distracting or stimulating to look at, making it harder for them to settle to sleep. A lot of nightlights are also the "wrong" colour for promoting good sleep and actually inhibit the natural release of the sleep hormone melatonin, meaning your baby or toddler will struggle to settle into a deep sleep or into their night-time sleep cycles.
We'd generally suggest saving the nightlight until your child is over 2 and starts asking about monsters in their room!
Naps are definitely important for decent night sleep and we've written a lot about how too much or too little daytime sleep can adversely affect the night, but one way naps really do sabotage the chances of a good night, is the late afternoon nap in particular. Ideally by 8 months this nap is gone altogether, because a nap that is too late in the day or for too long is going to wreak havoc with the night. Once over 3 months old, any large chunk of sleep beyond 3PM can cause difficulty at bedtime, can cause night wakes where your baby may be difficult to get back to sleep and it can be the cause of an early morning wake. The late afternoon nap has a lot to answer for! What we suggest is trying to get a longer sleep happening earlier in the day and using the late afternoon nap as a short catch-up nap to get your baby through until bedtime. It definitely shouldn't be their longest nap of the day.
Big surges of development, physical and mental, will mess with your child's sleep. This is more noticeable around 8 months (the 8 month regression) where your baby suddenly has a spurt of development and their naps and night sleep take a hit. This is usually because, at this age, your baby will be sitting, learning to crawl, possibly pulling to stand. Their brain is running at a million miles an hour and their sleep suffers as a result. It happens again around 12 months when your little one learns to walk and it will occur on and off whenever a new skill is being mastered - running, talking, climbing, socialising. These "regressions", thankfully, are temporary and should only last a few days to a week. The key is to keep doing what you're doing during this time and let your baby work through the changes. It is during sleep hiccups like this that many parents revert to rocking or patting their babies back to sleep and end up reintroducing sleep habits that will be harder to break now that their baby is older!
There are of course a dozen other factors influencing night-time sleep for babies and toddlers, but these four we've just mentioned are definitely the lesser known ones! If you'd like further information on achieving good night sleep, read this article.